Netflix Night: Mean Girls

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Okay, you’re going to think that this is so weird, but Mean Girls is actually one of the movies that my parents let me watch in order to get excited about moving to America. To be honest, I’m glad that they let me watch it, because it has become such a teenage cult classic, and it was an essential contribution to the formation of modern popular culture. 

Now, you may be thinking how a movie about conniving, egotistical, and manipulative girls are supposed to give me confidence about moving to a new, unfamiliar country. But trust me, Mean Girls is so much more than a movie about superficial teenagers who only care about popularity. In fact, I found myself relating a lot to the main character, Cady Herron.  

Mean Girls is a story about Cady Heron, who was trying to adapt to the American public high school culture. Cady was a homeschooled transfer student from Africa, and therefore moving to the United States was such a culture shock for her. She had no idea how to make friends in her new high school, and almost everyone thinks she’s weird. Eventually, she meets the “art geeks” who teach her the social hierarchy of their high school. When Cady was finally starting to get into the groove of things, she gets noticed by the girls at the top of the social hierarchy — The Plastics. These girls are rich, superficial, and deeply admired by the public. Cady was invited into their clique and was able to see that these girls that looked like they had it all, were actually pretty flawed. After taking over the queen bee, a hundred unfortunate mishaps, and an awkward school assembly, Cady ends up discovering who she really is and what she truly values.

Mean Girls is a movie about self-discovery. I think the main way that the movie shows that is through it’s depiction of a typical American public high school setting. In an environment where there’s a social hierarchy and certain expectations about where you fit in, it’s hard for teenagers to find their voice in the midst of all that chaos. A lot of the times in high school, you try to fit yourself into a box, or a certain stereotype. You think that you’re a specific type of person because you fit in best with these types of people. In addition to that, most people in a public high school were looking to climb the social hierarchy. But the movie shows that maybe that hierarchy isn’t all it’s cracked up to be. The movie communicates that that amount of social power and influence makes you lose sight of who you truly are, because you’re too busy being who everyone else expects you to be. At the same time, this movie shows that in order to discover yourself, you don’t necessarily have to fit the mold or limit yourself to a certain box. You’re free to be whoever you choose. I think that in this movie, Cady finds out not only who she is, but what it’s like to be a genuinely good person.

This movie is so relatable to teenagers across the United States, because, chances are, their high school was a lot like Cady’s. They know all about the social hierarchy, and how popularity is a form of power. Mean Girls highlights these qualities of public school culture, and critiques it’s influence on the younger generation. It’s showing teens that gaining popularity is a sacrifice of your morals, values, and overall good intentions. I think it’s a pretty inspiring movie too, because it’s teaching young people, especially young women, that you have every right to control who you are and that high school stereotypes shouldn’t be a defining factor for you.

Favorite Quote: “I wish we could all get along like we used to in middle school… I wish I could bake a cake filled with rainbows and smiles and everyone would eat and be happy…”

Netflix Night: Serendipity

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Serendipity is my favorite movie of all time.

It’s a love story about Sara and Jonathan who meet in New York City on a snowy, winter night. They spend the entire night together, laughing, talking, and having a good time. Sara is a huge believer of destiny and fate, and therefore she doesn’t believe in happy accidents. When the night comes to a close, Sara then proposes that her and Jonathan write their numbers on two items (Sara wrote hers on a book, Jonathan wrote his on a dollar bill), and if they find these items later in life, then they really were meant to be together.

Of course, it’s your typical romantic comedy where the guy loses the girl, then he tries to get her back. It’s super cheesy, maybe a little bit clichéd, but I still think it’s one of the most magical movies every made.

Part of the reason why I think this movie is so intriguing is because it analyzes people’s belief that destiny/fate will lead you to the person you love. In American culture, there’s this widespread belief that there was one special person out there made specifically for you. It’s like the forces of nature all worked together to make sure that you met this person at the right place and the right time. They’re “the one,” they’re your “soul mate,” and you two are supposed to spend the rest of your happy lives together. Now, do I really believe this is all true? Maybe to an extent. But I think that ultimately Americans really give in to this belief because they value relationships. They don’t want to spend their lives alone. They want to believe in magic and happy endings.

I know that this movie isn’t very realistic. Honestly, it probably would never happen in real life. But I think it accurately portray’s Americans’ value of love and relationships, and how in today’s culture, a lot of us are just looking for the person we’re meant to be with.

Favorite Quote: “And if you’re smart enough, you learn from your mistakes. You figure it out. You… you think. You realize that life isn’t some elaborate stage play with directions for the actors. Life’s a mess, Sara. It’s… it’s chaos personified.” 

What even is Netflix Night?

Do you ever have one of those nights where you literally just don’t know what to watch on Netflix? You don’t want to start a TV show, because that’s too much of a commitment. But at the same time, you have no idea what kind of movie you want to watch. I mean, there are so many movie options that it’s hard to narrow everything down. Are you in the mood for a romantic comedy, or more of a sports drama? When you’re given so many options, it can be hard to choose.

This section of my blog is here to help you with your Netflix dilemma. The next time you have no idea what to watch on Netflix, just click this tab and I’ll give my best recommendations. The movies I’ll pick will reflect some sort of American value, so maybe you’ll learn something new about American culture as well.

So get your popcorn ready, folks! It’s time for Netflix Night.